Happy Birthday to My Mother

Mom,

All the cards in the world couldn't accurately tell you how much I love and adore you. So, instead of reading through a dozen cards hoping one will say exactly what I feel, I've decided to make you your very own Blog-Card!

I think Taylor Swift said it best when she sang, "I know you were on my side, even when I was wrong. And I love you for giving me your eyes, staying back and watching me shine..." Whenever I hear this song, I immediately burst into tears. We've been through a lot in this life together and I'm so thankful that God gave me you as a mother, a friend, and a walking buddy. He knew I would need a gentle soul to calm this fiery spirit. And to show me that strength isn't how tough you can be, but how willing you are to show others your true feelings.

You've never held back a tear or a kind word. Your love for others is quiet and unconditional. When people disappoint or pain you, you don't get angry. You feel hurt and you cry. You aren't malicious or vengeful like so many others I've encountered. It's rare to find someone like you.

We don't always get along--mostly because I'm young and still learning how to pick my battles. But I'm truly blessed to have you here in Oklahoma with me. I don't think I could have adjusted without you. We aren't rich in material possessions but that's because our treasure lies in Heaven. Instead, we're rich with love and many blessings. You taught me to appreciate that above all else. You also taught me it's O.K. not to have the most expensive clothes to dress up in. And I don't have to wear a ton of make-up to bring out my true beauty. I don't have to be anyone other than who I am.

I'm not a mother but someday I will be. I hope I can instill in my children a love for God like you did for me. I hope I can give them a safe place to land and a shoulder to cry on. Your whole life has been about Zach and me. It's never been about you or what you want. I know you wouldn't have it any other way. I can only pray that I will be half the mother you are someday.

Thank you for being selfless so I could pursue my dreams. Thank you for being slow to anger so I could come to you about anything--bad or good. Thank you for teaching me that life isn't about what you acquire--it's about loving God and giving your best to the people you love.

Happy Birthday, Mom! The world is a better place because you live in it.